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Anal Enthusiast

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“I enjoy anal sex, my partner enjoys my penis, but we want to try something more. He doesn’t enjoy dildos and vibrators. Can you suggest something else that would bring us both fun and pleasure?”

Dear Anal Enthusiast:

I can’t tell you how nice it is to hear a couple still looks forward to planting the seed of love. There are a few things you can do to spice things up. I will list out my top 5 favorites here in no particular order.

1. Cock ring/ French Ticklers – More for you than him Great way to restrict blood flow and increase girth just enough to be noticeable. They actually make one of these that has a vibrator attached to tease your taint. This is AWESOME!!!

2. Try some leather. There is nothing wrong with testing out some leather whips and chains or even just a leather harness. You may like it and want more.

3. Flavored lube is a great way to increase your craving for “eating out”. Use the lube and spend some extra time making him happy as a clam before you meet him there. You can also try the Icy hot lube, its not my fave but my friends just love this product.

4. Role Play – Knock, Knock. Its the pool guy, I am here to fiddle with your pump. Come on people, role playing is one of the easiest ways to turn a spark into a flame. Get it on!

5. You can always experiment with a third party to spice things up. I can list 10 ways to use a third man to make your partner scream with pleasure. Use your imagination! Understand however if you consider adding a third to the equation, make sure you have open lines of communication and that your partner knows what you are doing before you come home with a new dick for him to try. If you neglect my advice you may find yourself looking for another hot bottom to play with.

Keep your spark alive whatever way you can, this will keep your sex hot and your imagination hotter. Always try new products, you never know what you will like till you give it a go.

Ryan –


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